Christmas number six without dad

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This will be Christmas number six without dad, bless his heart. But I sure am comforted knowing that his faith was solid, his eternity secure. Yes, I miss him. It's wistful, melancholic. But I know he is with the Lord, and therefore he is in perfect delight and security.

So while I'll be getting together with family and celebrating the Reason for the Season, dad is actually with Him. What a comfort and joy that is to know, and I'm thankful.

I'm going through old photos, optimizing, and blogging them. Here's one I found. I think it's when my nephew was born. This would have been in March 2018.

Family pictures

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A little over a week ago, dad had his fifth heavenly birthday. Everybody dies. I understand that. It's the natural order. But I sure do miss our Saturday morning coffees and chit-chat. I miss talking guns, family genealogy, computers, religion, and other things with him. Dad could converse intelligently on a wide array of topics. He was well-read but also just a smart man. I'm thankful that he didn't linger for a long period while suffering. I hope that his faith and medication gave him comfort during those last few days he was alive in March, 2018. Dad had a stroke on or near March 13, 2018, and was gone three days later. He loved to read science-fiction, and was always giving me a book he'd just finished. He also liked to piddle around in his shop, a little fifteen by thirty prefab on concrete pillars. He did some gunsmithing, some reloading. A year or two before he really got bad, I helped him repair the small deck attached to that building, and he was proud as a peacock when we finished. I wish I'd hugged him and told him I love him more often. Below is one of the last -- perhaps the very last -- pictures of dad with all of us. I wish I knew exactly when the picture was made. The old truck pictured here belonged to a long-time neighbor and farmer. Dad had it for many years, and it has now gone to our preacher, who uses it for him own farming. I can remember many a time using that truck to haul one of dad's riding lawn mowers to Russell Springs for repair. It was loud and proud.

My dad at age 60

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This morning I cuddled with Susan, then we got up about 6:30 am at Lilly's insistence. I had coffee, a banana, and a mini-honeybun.

I welcomed several new members to my "Apps, Proofreading, Websites" Facebook group, and also did a nice Featured Author post starring Lisa R. Hall's novels Girl Found and Wendy. Already proofreading related, I got a "Thanks, man!" from J. N. Chaney for purchasing his tetralogy that begins with The Amber Project. Doesn't hurt to tip the hat to the man who has, so far, paid me $700 to proofread novels to prep them for publishing under his branding.

Here's a photo of dad, Paul Bertram Miller, taken in September of 1997. He was 60 years old at this time:

















My dad in 1959

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Slept from 4am to 9:30 am, after we got home from rescuing H.

This is my father, Paul Betram Miller, at age 22 in 1959 while in Memphis, Tennessee in the Navy.

October 22, 2019

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Today when I got to work C. had emailed me, upset. She'd discovered the refrigerator door wide open, temperature 70 °F. I had K. requisition emergency money from the Business Office to replace a few perishables. We still had our roast for lunch — Manhattan style.

Allan made it in about 3ish this afternoon. I saw Dr. Sherry Jones and got enough refills for 6+ months. Then Susan and I went and had supper with Bobo and Allan in Crocus.

We had white beans, cornbread, relish, onions, pork chops, country ham, fried potatoes, and boiled cabbage.

I came across a couple more pictures of dad I collected in the days and weeks after he passed in March 2016. Sure do miss him.

Tomorrow, I'll call CertaCare and have them fill the B12 sublingual and the vitamin D. I'll pick it up after work, do my 10K run, then have supper with Allan and Bobo before he and I play some Magic: The Gathering.

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My father when he was 12 years old

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Yesterday at work I got my Azulle Plus stick-PC moved to TR and connected to my 32" Samsung t.v. via HDMI cable. I plan to slowly build up a video library of psychoeducational group therapy material, which I will store on the attached King Dian 120 Gb external drive and on at least two external web repositories (box.com, pCloud).

My plan is to download educational video clips at home from YouTube and perhaps other sources, then copy them to storage attached to the Azulle Plus for playback on demand. That way, I'm not placing any undue stress of the work network.

It's 6:52 am. We've been up a few minutes, and discovered Emma already in Susan's chair and watching Inkheart :)

Last night after we got home from taking the family out to eat at Little Taste of Texas in Glasgow, Susan and I watched a movie titled Fractured, about a guilt-ridden alcoholic that becomes delusional, with tragic consequences.

Although I'm pretty sure I've got this picture archived on my TNAS and MyCloud devices, as well as multiple cloud services accounts, this morning I Facebooked this picture of dad taken in 1949 when he was twelve years old. I contacted dad's first cousin Sheila Frech via FB Messenger to see if she'd be interested in having the actual photograph. She is indeed, and I'll mail it to her from work on Monday.

I've mopped, which will please Susan. I think I'm going to perhaps read a bit on my Kindle then possibly nap a bit. I've mirrored my updated Flatpress blog to my ThinkCenter PC's primary drive and to my NAS this morning.

Susan has gone out to track down a couple of patients and see to them, and at 11:15 am Grant has finally risen. The girls have been up for awhile, especially Emma. It's a beautiful Fall day. I saw where Ken Hill ran in the Downtown Days' 5-K this morning. I may do 10-K this afternoon, depending on the weather and my disposition. If I don't I'm probably run tomorrow.

Dad, the U.S., and the Outer Banks

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Well, the United States continues to call me, which is concerning. Though not nearly as concerning as when Barack Obama was in office. <img hspace=10 vspace=10 align="right"enter image description here

Susan left out before 5 am. She and some coworkers were going to Nashville to ride a train, stop at an Octoberfest — just have a good time. I think she was a bit anxious about going but her text messages through the morning sounds as if she's enjoying herself :)

I've been updating my Dropbox, Box.com, and Google Drive accounts with some blogging software, markdown editors, and stacks to serve local websites. I've also downloaded some old content from the days when I had a webspace on donationcoder and it'll be interesting to sift all of that over the coming weeks for contents I can integrate into my current offline blog. In particularly, I hope to learn or be reminded of various programming-related things I've learned over the past decade. Colony. Watching episode 8 now and minding some downloads/uploads. I've also been remembering dad, and missing him. Mom and Sharlyon are still in the Outer Banks, I presume. I think she's due to arrive home sometime tomorrow. And Emma is in for the weekend. She spent the night with Hannah, who was house-sitting last night for Brack and Isabelle. Now she's home, sprucing up. I imagine she's gonna spend time with Callum.

Interestingly, both girls have commented to me this morning that they're glad their mom took this trip today. I think they both see how hard she works, and her stress level, and are glad to see her do something for herself. Susan sent me a text about a museum they have in Nashville that she thought the two of us might enjoy sometime.

At 11:00 am, it's only 74° F and 43% humidity. If the weather holds, I may do an afternoon run. I ran 10K yesterday after work, but it was my first run in a full week, because it's been so hot.


Later...

I took a nap, finally, around 3:30 pm. Hannah, Austin, and Emma have gone out. Grant just got home from working at Sonic and has fallen asleep in Susan's chair.

In looking through some directories I've downloaded from old cloud backups, I found this newspaper clipping from 2011 when Emma and Emily placed/won a writing competition in school :)

A picture of the young Paul M, my father

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Here is a picture of my dad in his younger years. He's holding a revolver. He sure did love guns and shooting. Dad died March 16, 2018. Sure do miss him!

A picture from mom and dad's wedding

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Here's a photo I found from mom and dad's wedding. I think this was sometime in 1970. That's my maternal grandparents with her, Paul and Dorothy. I can remember Grandaddy Calhoon taking me golfing with him and me getting to drive the golf cart. I can remember us pausing for lunch and eating vienna sausages and crackers and drinking Coca-Cola. He died when I was a senior in high school.

And here is a picture of my wife's niece at her high school prom.